Ya can't knock free food

I recently received a gift certificate for one of ten local restaurants from someone who really liked some work I did for them.

I like food, but I’m not a foodie. I don’t really visit any of our local restaurants because I already have my favorite franchises. I mean, yeah, I love Frankie’s (which is the best hot dog franchise in Connecticut and now Florida), but it’s not like I go out of my way to go to any of our other restaurants. Waterbury doesn’t really have any of its own local “flavor” that other towns have — at least, I don’t think so.

But I’m not one to turn down a free meal, especially not when it meant a night out alone with Mike.

Initially, I asked him what he was in the mood for, because I didn’t really care. He wanted Tuscan-style food, and most of our restaurant choices were Italian. The more I thought about it, though, the less I wanted Italian. I mean, I eat Italian food at home all the time, and I also eat it when I go to my aunt’s, which is pretty often. Our only other choices were a Tex-Mex restaurant, or an American/European restaurant. The latter’s website didn’t have a menu. I was suddenly really homesick for Deerfield Beach and the Tex-Mex food down there, so I decided to give the Waterbury version a shot.

Crossroads Cantina is a restaurant tucked in the industrial section of downtown. It’s a little offset from the main road, hidden behind what looks like a warehouse and a maze of highway on-ramps and exits. It was pretty quiet outside, but as soon as we entered the automatic doors we were blasted with chatter and loud music. It became very clear very quickly that I wasn’t going to get the private atmosphere that I had daydreamed about all day.

Still, free dinner is free dinner, and I was pretty hungry. Our waitress seated us and let us know that she was new. “I’m probably going to suck,” she told us. She reminded me a little of Lauren, my younger sister. She was about Lauren’s age — maybe younger — and she was really friendly.

She took our order — which took a while because we had a few questions and she had to run back and forth to ask someone else when she didn’t know some of the answers, and Mike always takes a long time to order anyway — and then brought us tortilla chips and salsa. The chips were pretty good, if not a little greasy. The salsa was deliciously spicy but sort of reminded me of the stuff you could buy in the store. According to the menu, both were housemade every morning.

They were pretty busy, which is probably why it took so long for both our appetizer and our entrees to come out. But when Mike tried to cut his chicken breast with a fork and, unable to do it, asked a passing waitress for a knife, he got a butter knife. We had a good laugh over it, but he still had a hard time getting his meat cut.

The rice that came with my quesadilla was dry, and the quesadilla itself didn’t have much chicken or cheese in it. I like the quesadillas at 99 — a franchise restaurant in our city — a lot better.

I came to the conclusion that Crossroads probably gets its reputation because it’s the only Tex-Mex in town and because most of the people that go there come to drink and are probably too drunk to notice that the food isn’t totally stellar.

Still, our waitress was friendly and she did pretty good, considering it was only her third night and her first night with the place packed. I tipped her pretty well, though I’m probably biased since she reminded me of my little sister.

Mike and I compared notes on the ride home, and passed one of the restaurants we could have gone to.

“We would have probably got our food faster if we’d gone there,” he said. “We probably would have been outta there an hour ago.”

“True,” I said, feeling a little guilty for talking him out of Italian.

He took a right when our light turned green. “Ya can’t knock free food, though.”

All work and no play gets me a BlackBerry and no life

My life is going at the speed of a frog in a blender. It’s almost too much!

I started working two jobs a couple of weeks ago. I am not used to working all day, every day. It’s exhausting! It’s totally worth it at the end of the week, though. I’m actually catching up on things I’ve been trying to save for. Maybe I’ll even be driving the Sunfire soon, rather than my death trap Mazda. I even got the BlackBerry I’ve been dying to have (thank you to Sarcastica for being so patient and helping me get on BB Messenger)!

A couple of days ago, I also partnered my web design freelancing business with my aunt’s web design and print media business, OSC. We will be collaborating on social media websites. So basically, if one of us has a client that needs a website and social media, we will work on it together. I will be working on the social media end of it, be it setting up accounts on social networking sites (MySpace, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc) or building a site in WordPress. We will be offering training and hopefully will be doing seminars. We have an expo in about a month that we need to prepare for, and we’ve been doing a lot of networking. Needless to say, I’ve been working pretty much non-stop and I could use a nice, long nap.

Somehow, through all of this craziness, I’ve managed to stay smoke-free. I don’t know how the hell I’m doing it.

Of course I have another sinus infection. I have to call my physician in the morning and get some drugs! I thought that by quitting smoking, I wouldn’t get as many sinus infections each year. I guess I thought wrong. I don’t want to go back to smoking, though. I don’t even care that I quit, and I’m glad for all of the extra cash (especially now that Connecticut is hiking up the taxes on tobacco).

The only real problem with all of this working is that I’m starting to feel like I don’t ever do anything fun. I realized the other day that I’ve been much been working non-stop for the last year or so, and that sucks. It’s starting to drain me. I spent most of the day yesterday trying to stop the

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My only consolation is that today is Wednesday, Friday is pay day, sometime this weekend I am going to get my hair cut, and Julien-K finally released their debut album. Oh, and did I mention that Mike found me the ultra-rare translucent Dr. Manhattan figure? Cool beans.

How to Boost Your Advertising Sales

1280x600 Numbers ad, MySpace.com, 03/18/2009 Not too long ago, I noticed that MySpace was using a new ad banner size. Their entire background was devoted to the costumer’s product, for an entire day. There was also usually some kind of accompanying 960×250 banner underneath the header. I loved this form of advertising from the start. I thought it was really creative and interesting. So naturally, I forgot about it.

1280x800 Resistance: Retribution ad, IGN.com, 03/18/2009 Then, I was at Mike’s one day and he was showing me something or other at IGN.com. IGN started off as a little website that people uploaded video game walkthroughs to in .txt files, and now they write review and walkthroughs of all the hottest new games. I was surprised and excited to see that IGN too was using a similar advertising format.

Both sites are now sought-after ad spots. Let’s face it: whether you love or hate them, each site has a very large user base.

While MySpace uses only their home login page for these background ads, IGN uses the ads on every page. If there is no advertiser for that size on a given day, MySpace will use the 960×250 banner spot beneath the header on their login page, while IGN just reverts to their red logo background and regular ad spots.

A recent ad featured on MySpace was for the new Nicholas Cage movie, Numbers. At the bottom of the home login page, on the left hand side, was a smaller 620×50 banner.

620x50 Numbers ad, MySpace.com, 03/18/2009 MySpace and IGN aren’t the only websites using this new ad size. I have seen a handful of other sites using their backgrounds as ad space, and I think that more sites should snag this new idea while they can.

Why? Let’s face it, ads are tough. Users hate them and customers want the best ad spot possible. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t about Customer X or Y complaining that they aren’t the only one, or that their ad isn’t in the current hot spot. Companies have a hard time pleasing everyone and making money at the same time. I’ve seen all sorts of different methods that work, but get old very quickly: the page curl, the 1025×230 dropdown, the 300×250, and many others. Customers want ad space that gets in users’ faces, and users want ads that are helpful but also easily averted.

The full background, 1280×600, ad size solves all of these problems. It gets your attention, but it’s also part of the normal site; there’s nothing popping up, down, left, or right at you. If you’re interested in the product, you can click on one of the nearby banners (which are usually part of the entire ad in general). If you’re not interested, you can just move on.

Customers can purchase a whole day of being the best ad on the site, and online companies can make a nice profit because these ads are so great.

Of course, just like anything else on the web, this solution isn’t going to last forever. So get your background ad on and make some money!

Hey, "Jude," no more

Every time I go to write a new post, I end up writing about something I don’t want to write about, because I don’t want to write about what I actually want to write about. With me? Great.

I spent the last two weeks sort of reevaluating my life. I thought about my relationships with other people, my career, my goals, and blahblahblah (all one word, ’cause that’s how I actually say it). The only thing that I actually figured out was my current job situation. I didn’t make any decisions on the other things that are bothering me. I obviously can’t do anything about the things I can’t control, but it still sucks because waiting is not on my list of skills.

I did decide to stop letting everyone use me, and even though I do mean to stick to that, it’s hard. It was especially hard yesterday when someone who basically ditched me for the last couple of weeks suddenly called and wanted my sympathy (and possibly my help; I didn’t answer the phone).

I just can’t keep giving everything and getting nothing in return. I can’t live in a cesspool of drama and constant emergencies that I always feel obligated to help out with. The truth is, I don’t owe any of these people anything, because they never gave me anything to begin with. Sure, we had some good times (Rock Band marathons, trips to the mall for no reason, spontaneous trips to the bar, movie nights, and all that good stuff), but when it actually counted, none of these people — and by none I mean neither, ha ha ha — could give me any of their time.

So, although a part of me wants to return that phone call, I refuse to get suckered in again. I hope that both of these people end up getting their shit together, but I’m not going to stick around to find out.

I have to be a hardass about this because otherwise I’m only going to keep getting hurt.

Anyway. Now that that’s over with, we can get to the good stuff:

Chow Seal!