http://elizabethbarone.net/2009/05/27/i-beat-you-to-it/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=i-beat-you-to-it Sarcasm, Creative Marketing, Rheumatoid Arthritis, and Creative Writing Wed, 08 Feb 2012 20:05:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://elizabethbarone.net/2009/05/27/i-beat-you-to-it/#comment-1068 elizawhat Sat, 30 May 2009 17:55:42 +0000 http://perpetualsmile.net/?p=1196#comment-1068 You have no right to sit there and call me selfish or mean, when you don't know me at all and don't know the situation. I'm not saying you have to agree with me, but you really have no clue what you're talking about. I have been there for her through thick and through thin, and she has continued to lie to me and hurt me time and time again. Obviously you have never been taken advantage of or been mistreated by someone you love. I know that I am a true friend, and I don't need you to tell me who I am. You have no right to sit there and call me selfish or mean, when you don't know me at all and don't know the situation. I'm not saying you have to agree with me, but you really have no clue what you're talking about. I have been there for her through thick and through thin, and she has continued to lie to me and hurt me time and time again. Obviously you have never been taken advantage of or been mistreated by someone you love. I know that I am a true friend, and I don't need you to tell me who I am.

]]> http://elizabethbarone.net/2009/05/27/i-beat-you-to-it/#comment-1069 Meghann Sat, 30 May 2009 05:27:46 +0000 http://perpetualsmile.net/?p=1196#comment-1069 yeah real good friend... well then, thank you screw you too. People make mistakes and if you can't seem to see that this "Jude" is actually your friend and actually cared about you then fine, yeah so "Jude" got herself into trouble whatever right. Take a step back. Look in the mirror, have you never felt down, have you never felt like you had no friends? I've been faithfully reading your blog and honestly you're not very nice at all. A true friends sticks by their friends. I had a friend do this exact same thing to me once, and guess where it got her? Nowhere, she ended up being the most selfish person I know, I gave to her what I could, no I couldn't be a full time go to girl, No I was a single mom and had shit I had to take care of. You're very selfish. Think back is this "Jude" Character really worth losing completely? yeah real good friend… well then, thank you screw you too. People make mistakes and if you can't seem to see that this "Jude" is actually your friend and actually cared about you then fine, yeah so "Jude" got herself into trouble whatever right. Take a step back. Look in the mirror, have you never felt down, have you never felt like you had no friends? I've been faithfully reading your blog and honestly you're not very nice at all. A true friends sticks by their friends. I had a friend do this exact same thing to me once, and guess where it got her? Nowhere, she ended up being the most selfish person I know, I gave to her what I could, no I couldn't be a full time go to girl, No I was a single mom and had shit I had to take care of. You're very selfish. Think back is this "Jude" Character really worth losing completely?

]]> http://elizabethbarone.net/2009/05/27/i-beat-you-to-it/#comment-1072 elizawhat Sat, 30 May 2009 03:22:16 +0000 http://perpetualsmile.net/?p=1196#comment-1072 I <em>do</em> feel a lot better, but it still sucks. As much as she completely tires me out, I do love her. I wish there was a way that we could still be friends, but it just doesn't look like it. It's definitely hard to give up on someone you care about. I hope it gets a little easier for you. I do feel a lot better, but it still sucks. As much as she completely tires me out, I do love her. I wish there was a way that we could still be friends, but it just doesn't look like it. It's definitely hard to give up on someone you care about. I hope it gets a little easier for you.

]]> http://elizabethbarone.net/2009/05/27/i-beat-you-to-it/#comment-1071 elizawhat Sat, 30 May 2009 03:21:54 +0000 http://perpetualsmile.net/?p=1196#comment-1071 It's really hard! Even now, even though I know what it will lead to, I'm still sitting here second guessing myself. Did I do the right thing? Am I a bad person for walking away? Will I still be able to see her kids (who I love so very much)? It's definitely tough. It's really hard! Even now, even though I know what it will lead to, I'm still sitting here second guessing myself. Did I do the right thing? Am I a bad person for walking away? Will I still be able to see her kids (who I love so very much)? It's definitely tough.

]]> http://elizabethbarone.net/2009/05/27/i-beat-you-to-it/#comment-1073 Sarcastica Fri, 29 May 2009 21:46:35 +0000 http://perpetualsmile.net/?p=1196#comment-1073 You're doing the right thing! I have a friend like that, and I'm still working on the whole giving up process. For the most part though, I've just ceased replying and talking to that person and I feel a lot better! You're doing the right thing! I have a friend like that, and I'm still working on the whole giving up process. For the most part though, I've just ceased replying and talking to that person and I feel a lot better!

]]> http://elizabethbarone.net/2009/05/27/i-beat-you-to-it/#comment-1070 Hilly Thu, 28 May 2009 13:18:03 +0000 http://perpetualsmile.net/?p=1196#comment-1070 Good for you! It is always so hard to break those cycles and I am happy that you did. :) Good for you! It is always so hard to break those cycles and I am happy that you did.

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