My Fall 2011 Fashion Obsessions

Working in retail is not easy when you have no extra money to spare but cute clothes and shoes practically stare you in the face for at least four hours a day. Luckily, the things I’ve been drooling over seem to be relatively easy to find in pretty much every store, so I could shop around (if I had any extra money).

My Fall 2011 Fashion Obsessions

Clockwise from the top left: Charlotte Russe leggings, Mudd sweater poncho, Mossimo Supply Co. corduroy jacket, Charlotte Russe suede wedge boots, Mossimo Supply Co. tote, Candie's sweaterdress, and About A Girl dolman tee.

My fashion philosophy is: leggings + long shirt = good to go. I also like clothing that I don’t have to dry clean. (I once learned the hard way that the “dry clean only” warning on silk is for serious. Plus, I’m really not a fan of spending more money on a piece of clothing I’ve already purchased.) If all else fails, I am a jeans and tee shirt kind of girl, but I also love me some boots. I’m not really huge into jewelry, but will wear some occasionally; the only jewelry pieces I regularly wear are my gauged earrings, nose ring, and my promise and engagement rings (which I haven’t been able to wear lately because of eczema on almost all of my fingers). I’m also notorious for putting pieces together that would clash on most people but work on me; I’ve frequently been told, “Only you could get away with that.” I am not afraid to wear more than one pattern. I also really, really like things that I can wear in more than one way.

Leggings are totally pants, in my eyes, and I firmly believe that you can never have too many. You should always wear a shirt with them that falls at least two or three inches below your hips, though. Anything higher looks weird to me.

I’m on the hunt for a couple more pairs of leggings and some long-sleeved shirts or sweaters that I can wear over them. I also desperately need a new bag. The zipper to my beloved leather Converse bag won’t zip, so I’m always either gambling on things falling out, or someone robbing me. I’ve also been on the prowl for a pair of knee-high slouchy boots since last fall. Sigh. I wish I could stumble upon an extra $150…

What are you obsessing over this season? What are your wardrobe staples?

How I started believing in miracles

My friend Sandy’s sister Mary had three cats. Her husband Fred and two girls recently moved into a house for rent. While moving one of their couches, they inadvertently squished their male cat, Boots, who was inside of the couch. He had several broken bones and fractures, and they didn’t think he was going to make it.

Mary and Fred brought Boots to the vet, who said that it didn’t look like he would make it, but that she could try to save him for a few thousand dollars. Mary and Fred decided to have Boots put down. Devastated, they went home to tell their two daughters that Boots had passed away.

“Boots passed away,” T, their oldest daughter, told me when I walked in the door a couple of weeks ago. A, her little sister, nodded solemnly.

“I’m sorry to hear that,” I said to them. Sandy had already told me what had happened, but I knew it was important for the girls to tell me, and for me to listen.

Sandy and I went out that night, and even though I thought of the black and white cat from time to time, I slowly began to forget about the incident.

A few days later, Sandy texted me with a photo. The message read something like, “Boots is alive!”

I called her immediately. “What? How?”

Freddy went to pick up Boots’ cat carrier, urn, and paw print that they were supposed to get from the vet. The receptionist told him that the vet needed to see him. Fred couldn’t figure out why the vet would want to see him.

“I couldn’t do it,” the vet had said, walking into the waiting area with a very much alive Boots in her arms. “I went in to give him the dosage and he was walking around, broken bones and all! I pet him to relax him before I gave it to him, and he started purring.” She had mended Boots as best as she could, and sent him home with Fred with an antibiotic.

A couple of weeks later, Boots and their other cat Marley became proud parents of three kittens.

I didn’t believe in miracles before this. A cat who had seemed on the brink of death is now mostly healed up. It wouldn’t have been possible without the charity of the vet, but I think Boots has a strong little soul, otherwise he wouldn’t have hung on that long.

I look at Popi, and I think that there are many years ahead of him. He was diagnosed with stage four liver, lung, hip, and spine cancer in November 2009. The doctors estimated that it had taken only two months to manifest and spread, which means he got sick in September 2009.

Today is May 17th, 2010. Other than fatigue, changed taste buds, a few other symptoms from the radiation and chemotherapy, and the vicious pain he’s been living with for months now, he’s still here. He’s still cracking jokes, watching his favorite TV shows, and cheering on his UConn Huskies. He’s always been stubborn as hell, and I knew from the beginning he wouldn’t go down without a fight.

It’s been nine months since stage four cancer manifested itself in his body. I see at least another five years ahead of him.

Warning: Blaaahg post ahead

This turned out to be a longer post than I intended. It’s (most) of my woes, so if you want to skip it and read something more cheery, I recommend the Fun stuff category. Otherwise, leave a comment and tell me about your woes. It’s not all about me here, anyway. :)


This morning on my way to work, I passed a Sunoco and glanced at the price. It was $1.99 a gallon (cash). While most of us rejoice at this lower, Walmart-style price, there’s that nagging feeling in the back of my head that says, “this is bad.” I am only vaguely aware that the reason for the lower gas prices is the declining stock market. The people around me who know about these things — like KJ at work — tell me that the price of gas is going to keep going down, since the stock market won’t be going up anytime soon.

It’s a Catch 22, just like my own financial situation. I ranted a little about this on Scars Can Speak (the Letters of Love blog), and I’ve been writing in my own journal every day about different ways to tackle this problem. Either way, I lose on something. If, for example, I get a second job, I’ll be doing even more running from place to place and who knows how I’ll get my school work done for the rest of the semester. If I get more hours or can go full-time at my current job, I’ll only be able to take two classes next semester rather than getting a full head start on my BA. If I can’t get more hours at my current job and can’t get a second job, I’ll have to leave my current job (which I really like) for a full-time corporate job. Yes, I’d be making more money, but I wouldn’t be able to go back to school full-time for a while. I’d have to be a part-time student. It would take forever. I am so career-oriented and want everything done yesterday that it would drive me nuts. Continue reading