Why I think that opposing the mosque in NYC is not only wrong, but racist

PLEASE REMAIN CIVIL. I know this is a touchy subject for people on all sides, but let’s try to refrain from using words like “ignorant,” “stupid,” “retarded,” and the like. I’d like to keep the comments open and not block anyone. Thanks. • 08/23/2010 at 10:27pm

A few days ago, a Facebook friend invited me to join a Cause: STOP THE BUILDING OF MOSQUE NEAR GROUND ZERO SITE!!!!

I can’t even begin to describe the anger that literally burned through me as I read this Cause page. First of all, I thought Causes were supposed to be legitimate 501c(3) organizations. Apparently Facebook is now letting the masses run rampant. But second — and most importantly — of all, it angered me because it just screams racial profiling, yet again.

Don’t even try to tell me that this cause isn’t, because its description reads:

To send a message to our government that we don’t want this place of worship to be built near the very place they attacked us at.

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I am trying to send a message to the Government that anything that is to be built that has any involvement with terrorist “i.e. a Mosque” near to the Ground Zero attacks should not just be a Government vote it should be a vote that american people can participate in also.

I simply cannot understand why anyone thinks that Muslim people are the same people as terrorists. That kind of thinking would be like me thinking that just because my neighbor is black, they are going to break into my house. It almost physically sickens me when someone uses the phrase “towel head” or insinuates that the Muslim-American owner of a gas station is plotting to blow us up. (It also pisses me off that anyone these days uses the N word, but that’s another rant for another day.)

Anyone with an actual knowledge of the Islamic religion knows that it’s in actuality a very peaceful religion. You know that Buddhist friend of yours? Islam is pretty similar. It’s based on several principles that say things like, “Don’t brag,” and “Be good to other people.”

Terrorists, on the other hand, are extremist groups pretending to be Muslim, but actual Muslims do not approve of terrorists or anything they stand for. A real Muslim would not call herself a terrorist, and any terrorist who tries to call himself a Muslim is full of shit. Don’t believe me? Go to the book store or library and take out a book on Islam. I am forever grateful to my eighth grade English and religion teacher, Mrs. Barra, who, immediately after 9/11, taught us about the Muslim culture and Islamic religion. She wanted us to understand the difference between a Muslim and a terrorist, and even though I paid little attention to anything that year — it was a rough year — I did pay attention to those lessons.

However, there are too many people right now who are uneducated, and who choose not to believe anything other than what they have been told or have absorbed from the people around them and the media. A perfect example:

Why in the world would we want them there and why would they wanbt to be there unless it is to pour salt in our wound. We have helped and trusted these peopel and look what we get for it. I know that not all of them are anti american but how can you tell one from the other until it is to late. I know we need to relie on God but I also think that he wants us to stand up for our selves. Come on American, wake up! I heard a guy said that he wished he could open a hog farm next door to them… I agree. What kind of president do we have that would let this happen??? Oh yeah.. I almost forgot.

I’m not even going to touch the comment on the President, because I have no way of telling for sure whether she is insinuating he is allowing it because he is black or because his middle name is Hussein (which is an African name as well as a Middle Eastern name, and President Obama’s father is African). However, this person scares me. Why? Because she thinks that because you can’t tell a terrorist from a good Muslim-American, we should just not allow any of them here. This kind of thinking is what led to Japanese- and German-Americans being encamped during World War II. Don’t believe me? You don’t even have to go to the library to get the facts; Google it.

Fear and lack of education leads to drastic reactions. One guy even posted to the Causes page saying:

iam from yew york, go and do it see what will go down,faster then it went up!!..

Going back to the previous comment, the reasons for wanting to build this mosque have been made quite clear by the Muslim-American man who wants to build it:

  • there is a high population of Muslim-Americans in NYC
  • the mosque leader (for lack of a better term) has worked for several years with local Christian and Jewish leaders to promote interfaith understanding, and the mosque would help further that work

I understand that my fellow Americans still see 9/11 as a fresh wound. But don’t you think that it hurts your fellow Muslim-Americans, too? After all, since there are so many Muslim-Americans living in NYC, many of their lives were also lost or affected in some way on that day — and Muslim-Americans as a whole have been affected since. They deal with suspicious stares and whispers, racist comments (I once saw an episode of Cash Cab where one of the contestants got into the cab and said, “A cab driver whose native language is English!”), and persecution similar to the Salem Witch Trials, the Holocaust, and American encampments for Japanese- and German-American citizens*. Can you imagine everyone thinking that you were part of 9/11? And don’t say that it’s their own fault, because it’s not. As Faiqa said, all people of Middle Eastern decent don’t jump onto Skype at the same time and plot the next bombing, just like not all Christians are part of the Ku Klux Klan, not all black people steal and do drugs, and not all single mothers are strippers.

I have heard a lot of people say that building a mosque near Ground Zero — mind you, it’s not being proposed ON Ground Zero, just NEAR — is indecent. Why? A couple of people have even said if anything is to be built there, it should be nondenominational. Let’s toss aside the fact that the mosque wouldn’t be ON Ground Zero, and just concentrate on the issue of whether a mosque would be indecent.

As I said, there is a high population of Muslim-Americans in NYC. Statistically speaking, I have no idea how many exactly, nor do I know how many lost their lives on 9/11, but they did, and they’ve been affected in other ways even after the body count was finished. Building a mosque in that area — near or on — would not actually hurt anyone. If you live in NYC, you don’t have to look at it — just like you don’t have to look at the synagogues or guitarists if they bother you. No one is forcing you to convert. No one is even asking you to donate to the construction of the mosque. All you are being asked is to acknowledge that a group of Americans can construct a place of worship in the center of NYC, where space is available. Let’s face it. If a Baptist church were being proposed, no one would even complain. Even the people that think there shouldn’t be a particular religious building in that area wouldn’t so much as open their mouths. Honestly. The church would go up and that would be that.

If you really think otherwise, please say so and tell me why. Please explain to me why a group of Americans can’t worship where they want. I mean, fuck, I’m not even religious, nor am I of Middle Eastern decent, and yet I feel so strongly about this. Let them build their mosque. It’s not hurting you. If anything, it will help heal our country, because we have got to stop getting so riled up when “the Muslims” want to do something. I’ll leave you with what another commenter on the Causes page said, because his last few sentences sum my feelings up perfectly:

I don’t think I have ever been more ashamed of my country than I am now. “A slap in the face of all Americans.” How about the muslim american victims of the World Trade Center? NYC has one of the largest muslim populations in the country and as a new yorker, I have never met a more peaceful group of people. I think if we are going to dictate where people could build their place of worship, we should get in our time machines and tell the pilgrims to fuck themselves and stop whining that they want religious freedom. Now I understand many people live in parts of the country that are NOT considered melting pots, but here in NYC, that is what makes this the greatest city on earth. Following 9/11, there were blood drives, donations, volunteer efforts from muslim groups in the city….as were there from many other groups. We did not refuse their help then and it’s “unamerican” for us to tell them where they can and can not worship.


*Obviously they are not being slain, but the singling out is the same.

We were all being so careful not to be racist, until this guy screwed it all up

As sick as I am of hearing about Michael Jackson being dead and all that, some of the things that people have been saying just kill me. You’ve got the people who idolize him, even though the dude was totally messed up in the head and was a pedophile. Yes. In this day and age, we idolize pedophiles. Because I’m sorry, the man admitted himself that he slept in the same bed with little kids. And if he could admit to that, who knows what else he did. It’s my firm belief that kids don’t lie, unless they want a cookie. They don’t lie about being molested.

Anyway.

You’ve got the people who write poetry about his death, the people who forgot entirely that Farrah Fawcett died too, and the people who brought racial condescension into the conversation:

wtf06292009

Yes. He went there. “Whites will never understand.” WHITES. Like sheep. Like white people are stupid. Like they just don’t get that the guy’s music brought together a whole mess of people and made them happy. Like Michael Jackson is just above and behind the intelligence of the average white person.

I spent two years in a school system where the darker you were, the better you were considered to be. And I hate that kind of mindset, in anyone. I cannot understand why, in 2009, people are still being treated like they are nothing because of the color of their skin, or the religion of their choice.

Maybe I’m white, but at least I know to stay away from child molesters.

PS: Ed McMahon and Billy Mays also died, people. Show some damn respect and tweet about them, too!

I am American; now kiss my ass!

I never really thought about what it meant to be an American before yesterday, before someone on Facebook showed me.

I generally enjoy Facebook, regardless of how much I gripe about it. I interact a lot with friends, family, coworkers, participants of Letters of Love, fellow bloggers, and of course people who read the newspaper I work for. As much of a pain in the ass it can be — especially with this upcoming usernames business — it’s also a great marketing tool. I think I am just now starting to see the full potential of this website as a marketing tool. However, it’s also an international social networking tool, where old friends can connect, people can post photos of drunken bonfire parties — and where people can pass around their hatred like a high school bathroom cigarette.

I’m not naive. I know there are dozens and dozens of countries that, to put it lightly, don’t like Americans. They think we’re stuck up, rich bastards who only care about ourselves and drop bombs on random countries. Actually, I’m not even sure that any of them are sure why they hate Americans any more; at this point, the hatred has been handed down from generation to generation, so the original reason has completely faded.

I’m not naive, but I have been pretty sheltered from this kind of hatred. Oh, yeah, I’ve run into very racist people briefly, and yes it bothered me, but the encounter was so brief and was not directed toward me that I wasn’t really affected by it. That’s not to say that I’m nonchalant about racism. My firm belief is that it doesn’t matter what you look like or where you’re from. If you’re an asshole, then you’re an asshole. If you’re wonderful, then you’re wonderful. I only hate gas stations that don’t carry my ice cream or people who drive unnecessarily slow on the highway. I only hate when it’s cold or when I trip over something that doesn’t actually exist. So when I met Drago the dragon, I was a little taken aback.

I was busily taking polls on the LivingSocial app when I met this warm, friendly guy from Serbia. (That’s sarcasm, if you haven’t had your coffee yet.) The poll question was, “Should Taiwan be independent or part of China?” I voted independent, then scrolled down to see the comments. Drago was busy attacking anyone and everyone who was lucky enough to have the title of American — including minors. His word of choice? Whore. You were either an “American whore,” had the “eyes of a whore,” or, in my case, had “the four eyes of a whore,” for being American. I couldn’t help myself. He appeared to be only a couple years older than me from his profile picture, so I knew that he hadn’t even been around when we evil, whoring Americans dropped the Atom bomb (this was his biggest complaint, that we drop bombs). I knew that his hatred stemmed from his parents’ and grandparents’, friends’ and cousins’ hatred. I also knew that there would be no reasoning with him. A couple girls were trying to get him to let go of his grudge, but I knew that the effort was completely pointless. (Not that I can blame them for trying.) The girls were really sweet and, from their photos, I could tell they were a few years younger than me. Young enough that being called a whore could be considered sexual harassment, and could definitely be counted as breaking Facebook’s TOS.

When I came into the conversation, Drago the dragon and some other guys were having a field day with hazing Americans. The other guys didn’t want to talk to me, though. They probably had better things to do, like work or watch TV. Drago, however, did not have better things to do. Our conversation is as follows in the screenshots below. You have to read each pane from the bottom up, since new posts on Facebook always appear above older ones. The conversation really starts where I say I don’t understand why people hate Americans, and then I jump back on topic — since we were taking about Taiwan and China — and say that I think Taiwan should be independent because blah, blah, blah:

Page 1: Read from the bottom up

Page 1: Read from the bottom up

Page 2: Read from the bottom up

Page 2: Read from the bottom up

Please note that, at the time, my profile picture was a closeup of my sister and me. My eyes were pretty much jumping out of the picture, so I instantly knew that he was talking to me — especially when he called me four-eyes.

Of course, Drago the dragon didn’t know that I have years of experience being called four-eyes. He didn’t know that a cute boy named Emilio in my third grade class was the first to start, and that I learned very quickly how to deal with his teasing:

Emilio: Four-eyes!

Me: Yeah, four eyes to see what a JERK you are!

*stunned silence, then other classmates laughing at Emilio*

Drago was also kind enough to keep coming back and responding to my responses! No one else really does that on Facebook, because we’re all so busy with work and TV and all of that other stuff. Even now, my notifications tell me that he is still busy hazing other Americans with all of his non-American pals.

These American haters always forget one important thing, though: When their country is going under, we’re there to help. We constantly put aside all of our own problems (government, poverty, economy, etc) to help all of the other countries who hate us so much. I’m not saying we’re the coolest kids on the block, but we definitely are like a big brother or sister to every country out there. We’re the worldwide mama, taking care of everyone EVEN WHEN THEY DON’T WANT OUR HELP (which some people might call meddling, but hey, we’ve got good intentions)! About to get blown up by a bigger country? We’ll send our already exhausted troops over to save you! Just got crushed by a tsunami? We’ll send you food, water, and more troops to help clean up the damage! Stuck with a crazy maniac running your country, who executes people for so much as whispering that they don’t like him? We’ll bag him up and throw him in jail!

So yes, Drago, we may all be whores, but at least we’re whores who help.


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