The topic of religion has been bouncing around in my head for the last, oh, two months. I hate labels — especially since many of them carry negative connotation — but I would be considered an atheist, because I don’t believe in a higher power. However, I guess you could also call me a religious voyeur, because I like to learn about different religions. I believe that none of us really know the absolute truth — at least not until we die.
I’ve said before that not knowing what happens when we die makes me feel really uncomfortable if I think about it for too long. I try not to think about it, and try to live my life according to a couple of rules:
- Be happy — this might be the only life I get, so I’m not wasting time with anything that doesn’t make me happy,
- Take care of the people I love, and
- Reach out to other people, because we are all people and should all care about each other (unless someone is a complete douche; then I could give a shit less).
Not believing in any god or following any religion is my personal choice, just like it’s my personal choice to live by the above rules. It’s also my personal choice to educate myself on different religions that interest me, because love or hate the concept of religion, it has and still does play a big part in our society — on an international basis. A brief study of western civilization shows the different roles religion has played, and how it has impacted people*. However, it’s not religion itself that causes people to act; it’s the individual who chooses their actions. Your religion may say, “Give to the less fortunate,” but it’s still a choice. Your nation’s leader may say, “We’re going to take over this country in the name of our religion,” but it’s still that person’s choice, and your choice to follow or walk away.
Religion doesn’t make people bomb abortion clinics or hurtle planes into buildings or donate blood (or not). It’s all in how people interpret their religion, and it all depends on their morals. Someone who tells a pregnant woman that her baby will be cursed because she and the baby’s father aren’t yet married may be using their religion as an excuse, but it all boils down to that person’s own beliefs. We always have a choice of what to say or do, and cannot hide behind our faith (or lack thereof).
Religion itself is not evil because of individuals’ actions, nor are whole religious groups. Religion can be a beautiful and educational concept, if only to learn more about our world’s history. Studies recently showed that atheists tend to know more about various religions than the people who practice them do. That’s not to say that atheists are smarter or better people. It does, however, say that I’m not the only faithless person who has pursued religious study, whether on purpose or not**. I don’t think I’m better, but I do feel proud of having the knowledge that I do have. Knowing that others study multiple religions gives me hope that more people will become educated and will have a valid argument before opening up their mouths and accusing Wiccans of being lamb sacrificing devil worshipers and Muslims of being kamikaze-crazy terrorists. A basic knowledge of either of these religions will tell you that both of their foundations are the exact opposite. Both respect humans and animals, and life in general.
I strongly urge anyone — anyone, of any background, faith, whatever — to study at least two different religions. Just like you would inform yourself of your favorite NFL teams current stats before entering an argument about whether or not you lost this week’s game, you should also inform yourself of other religions before entering an argument about what that religion is or isn’t.
*I honestly didn’t think religion was important until I looked at religion and history together. I was then able to put it into perspective. For example, did you know that Muhammad reformed Arabia’s treatment of women as a result of teaching people about Islam? Women in Arabia were given higher status than women anywhere else in the world at the time — and I didn’t know this until reading The Muslim Next Door. (Thank you, Faiqa!) The teachings of the Qu’ran enabled people to think of men and women as equals, when they had never even thought of it before.
**I didn’t choose to go to Sunday School at my mom’s Protestant church, nor did I choose to go to a Catholic elementary school. I did, however, study several Pagan religions on my own, and continued learning about Islam after my 8th grade teacher gave us a series of lessons on it. I have also studied religions that formed at the time when civilization formed throughout my formal education, and further studied Christianity in college while taking Western Civilization I.